We can see that David learned a valuable lesson about God protection. We too can learn from this lesson. ! Samuel 25:32And David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, which sent thee this day to meet me: 33 And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.Three things strike me as I think about this incident in the life of David and our lives today.
Whatever you do when conflicts arise, be wise. If you’re not careful, you will handle conflicts in the energy of the flesh. And then . . . you’ll be sorry. What do I mean by being wise? Well, look at the whole picture. Fight against jumping to quick conclusions and seeing only your side. Look both ways. Weigh the differences. There are always two sides on the streets of conflict. Weigh the differences. The other part of being wise is to pray. Get God’s perspective. He gives us the wisdom we need when we ask Him for it.
Take each conflict as it comes . . . and handle it separately. You may have won a battle yesterday, but that doesn’t count when today’s skirmish comes. You may have a great measure of patience today, but it makes no difference tomorrow when the attack comes again. God doesn’t give you patience on credit. Every day is a new day.
Whenever you realize that there’s nothing you can do, wait. Wait patiently. Impossible impasses call for a firm application of brakes. Don’t keep going. Restrain yourself from anything hasty. Whenever possible, apply the brakes! Slow down. I’ve seldom made wise decisions in a hurry. Furthermore, I’ve seldom felt sorry for things I didn’t say. David obviously learned this lesson well, for he writes in Psalm 40:1 I waited patiently for the Lord; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.